A Word on How Not to Deal with Performance Anxiety
I think we all experience anxiety every now and then, to various degrees, depending on the situation… I am not married yet, but if/when I do get married, here are two things I am not going to do.
1. Try marrying another woman while I’m already married
2. Torch the hotel in which I plan to have the wedding party of my second bride .
“Married man arrested for torching hotel before bogus wedding in Yamanashi
Monday 27th October, 03:40 PM JST
YAMANASHI —
Police on Sunday arrested a 39-year-old married man for torching a hotel in Hokuto City, Yamanashi Prefecture, where he had canceled his wedding to another woman the same day. Nobody was injured, police said.
Tatsuhiko Kawata was arrested for allegedly torching the hotel at 2:20 a.m. on Saturday by spreading oil on the floor in a corridor. About 150 people, who were staying at the hotel, were evacuated.
According to police, Kawada, who is married and lives with his wife, child and his parents, booked the hotel for a wedding party to another woman which was supposed to be held on Saturday afternoon. But he canceled the party on Sunday after he torched the hotel.
Kawata was quoted by police as saying, “I thought I could get out of the wedding if the hotel was burned down.” Police believe he tried to conceal the fact that he is married. ”
(source: Japan Today http://www.japantoday.com/category/crime/view/married-man-arrest
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